You have begun to see some of my creations, and have seen all of my pets. You are starting to get know me a bit, and see my point of views, craziness, art, photography, and writings. How about a little more about me? Why not right? If you follow my blog you might as well know a bit more about me. Of course you may not care either.
Today I plan on telling you about the love of my life. My fiance, AJ. He is one of the best things to happen to me in a very very long time. AJ and I have not been together for very long, just over two years as of November 23 2013. Just like any relationship, there are ups and downs, fights and cuddles, love and, well I want to call it dislike, as I like to say, I love you all the time doesn’t mean I have to like you all the time. So how did we meet? Let’s just say we met through numerous common friends, and as our friendship starting to bloom the relationship just took over…..
Alright fine! He was dating someone when we first met
NO… now before you jump to any conclusions, it isn’t what your thinking!
We held back, and I showed as much respect for his current relationship at the time, as best I could, with his crazy eyes starring at me from across the room! I guess I was in luck, turns out his relationship wasn’t working for either of them in the first place, and soon ended after AJ and I started talking. Oh my, go me! After many crazy nights of staying up til the birds woke up in the early hours of the morning, seriously, we would stay awake and talk all night, some of them until 7-8 in the morning, then I would go up to bed, he would go get breakfast and go home as well, and we would meet up to do it all over again! As I was saying though, after these nights went by, we grew into a loving relationship that has lasted through the past two years, and can’t wait for it to keep on continuing into the future!
We moved in together three months later, as it turned out my current living arrangements with an old friend ( old friend now, remember people in and out of life etc, etc… ya.. another blog entry maybe..) were not working out and AJ was excited to the idea of having me join him and his little family ( Neko and Toby ).
A year after we had been living together and driving each other wild in the best ways possible, AJ proposed! It was not a huge crazy spectacular surprise, and I was very happy with that. The more I think back on it, the ladies that sit there and are all like, ugh, what?! He didn’t have roses out the ass and bent on one knee and yadda yadda.. No, it was in the moment, and it made it that much more touching and loving.
I love my man, and everything he does for me and our family. He does everything in his power to keep us happy. When I said that he is the best thing to ever happen to me in a very long time, I wasn’t just saying it for the sake of saying it. He has helped me overcome many issues I have had internally. He has helped me to start conquering my anger, helping me find Zen, and peace, as well as, acceptance for the uncontrollable. All things that I have had issues with in the past, and I am loving it! I am noticing more and more that I am becoming happier and happier the longer him and I are together.
He has the most amazing eyes and smile, he will hold me and take any worry away, he protects me, and supports me in every way he can! I love that he believes in me, and I believe in him. The day we wed, we not be the best day of my life, every day that I have him in my life, are the best days.
Here is something I wrote for him, to remind him every time he reads it, how amazing he truly is.
Love is what happens when two souls collide. Their lives merge, belongings are shared, and happiness is spread.
The strength that you have built within yourself will help you accomplish and overcome anything that life throws in your direction.
You are intelligent, dedicated, and amazingly talented.
There is nothing you can not do once your mind has been made up.
Overcoming things takes courage, strength, and patience.
Qualities, you already have within you. Don’t change who you are, unless it is to become someone you want to be.
Happiness isn’t the light at the end of a tunnel, it’s the smile on your face, and the sparkle in your eye.
Take on the world, and show everyone the real you, because it is the best you.
Learn from the past, live in the moment, and plan for the future.
You have overcome plenty of challenges, and you will continue to carry on, for you do have the strength inside of you.
You are my rock, my support through the mazes, and the one that keeps me grounded. I’ll never forget that.