First of all, my apologies for the cursing in the picture, however, it has inspired me to write this last post before the night ends.
“Fuck ’em if they can’t take a joke!”
Oops, sorry again!
On a more serious note, is it not empowering?! I find that when I think back into my past, the people that have come in and then out of my life, the heart ache, the horrible relationships, the dirty looks just because I wasn’t “cool enough”. Yet here I stand in front of you. Strong, empowered, intelligent, driven, and living with not one regret because I was able to stay true, and tell others to shove it when they thought I should be different. I am who I am today because of everything I have had happen to me in my life. From losing loved ones to lying friends, its all the same. It’s a matter of truly overcoming the things that hurt you and accepting that change is uncontrollable. Also, who cares what someone else thinks about you, are they really that important? Is their opinion going to effect you in 5 years? 10 years? Probably not.
I never believed my parents when I was in high school and they would tell me that these people (my friends) aren’t going to be in my life forever. Damn, was I stunned when I was proved wrong, and in turn them right. Even the people I was able to cling onto for 10 years, eventually still slipped through the cracks, and we are no longer in contact, not even facebook. So really, even the ones I thought would be in my life forever, the ones opinions “mattered” to me, don’t make a difference 10 years later. So live life the way it makes you happy at that moment, and don’t regret it later because seriously it won’t make it not happen, and because it happened is why your stronger, more intelligent, more beautiful today then you were yesterday. You can overcome anything in this world, because your meant to. So tell the ones who treat you badly to suck it, and live on!